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“It’s about time… Our wedding day is around the corner.

Yay… It’s supposed to be a celebration, but in reality, it’s turning into our worst nightmare.

The nitty-gritty is driving us nuts.

We are both on edge and fighting a lot.

All we wanted was a perfect wedding, but now I’m not even sure if we should get married at all.

What should I do? I feel miserable."

First of all, congratulations on the big day!

You’re not alone in feeling this way.

Many people face similar challenges.

This is often due to "Egocentric Bias," where we rely too heavily on our own perspective and assume others see things the same way.

This leads us to focus on our own anxieties and overlook how others might perceive the situation, known as the "Spotlight Effect."

Research shows that people often overestimate how much others notice their own embarrassing moments.

In other words, individuals tend to magnify their own sense of embarrassment, assuming others are paying more attention than they actually are.

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Consider the weddings you’ve attended.

What do you remember from those events?

Chances are, your guests will remember your wedding in the same way.

They’ll be there to celebrate you, connect with others, and enjoy themselves.

So, try to relax and enjoy the process.

Don’t stress if things don’t go perfectly.

At the end of the day, no matter how much you zoom in on imperfections, your guests won’t notice or mind.

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