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How To Fast-Track Love?
There Is Something Crucial We Can Learn from a Peacock
thelovemaze.com"I’m dating a girl whom I really, really like—more like… love.
I don’t think she feels the same way yet. She might still be in the ‘wait and see’ stage.
What can I do to make her fall in love with me or at least get closer to sealing the deal?"
While falling in love is complex, there’s a powerful shortcut to it: admiration.
Managed well, admiration can be the key to long-lasting love.
The concept of admiration is well illustrated in nature and documented in social psychology.
Take the male peacock, for example, flaunting his magnificent tail.
While his tail doesn’t directly indicate his qualities as a mate, it’s a way to solicit admiration from potential partners.
This is how our minds work—one positive trait in one area can influence our judgments in unrelated areas, known as the "Halo Effect."
To leverage this, identify what you excel at or are passionate about—whether it’s art, music, sports, food, wine, poker, games, or another area.
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Share your passion with her, teach her about your expertise, or engage her in an activity where your skills shine.
For instance, imagine you’re showing off your skills on the soccer field while she watches and cheers you on.
Such moments can be game-changers.
